Category Archives: about the site/blog

working/parenting: introducing a series of guest posts!

Have you ever noticed that when people write/talk about “working and parenting,” they all too often really just mean whether it’s a good idea to work outside the home as the mother of young children (as though there were one right answer to that question)? Or the challenges of doing that? Or the challenges of staying home with one’s children? During [...]

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survey results: here’s what I found out about you

Thank you, 64 kindly people who responded to my late-June survey. Here’s what you had to say. What brings you here? From most to least common: “I’m a feminist” (40 people), “I’m a parent” (30), “Someone I respect/like linked to this site, so here I am” (24), “I’m a birthworker” (15), “I’m a scholar/educator” (11), [...]

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enough about me; let’s talk about you …

Can you give me just a couple minutes of your time, sweet readers? Even if you don’t feel like answering all six questions, can you give me a little information, a hint, a whisper? Thank you. Click here to take survey.

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meanwhile, back at Facebook …

In February, I grudgingly gave in to the reality that blogging sort of requires a Facebook presence in this day and age. Kids these days. Because, back in my day grumble grumble. (Yes I am just thirty. Yes I know it’s 2011. Yes I have an inexplicably active presence on FriendFeed and Goodreads. It’s hard [...]

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