Category Archives: babies/toddlers/children

links for thought, December 2011 (2 of 2)

from Melissa Bollow Tempel at Rethinking Schools, “It’s Okay to Be Neither: Teaching that Supports Gender-Variant Children” Unfortunately, it wasn’t until I had a child dealing with gender variance (defined as “behavior or gender expression that does not conform to dominant gender norms of male and female”) in my classroom that I realized how important [...]

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links for thought, December 2011 (1 of 2)

from Dinosaur Comics, just some dinosaurs discussing routine newborn eye ointment (with a tip of the hat to Rebecca at Public Health Doula) from Analía R. Stormo, Nikki A. Hawkins, Crystale Purvis Cooper, and Mona Saraiya in The Archives of Internal Medicine, “The Pelvic Exam as a Screening Tool: Practices of US Physicians“–Unfortunately, the full [...]

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dream house, part 1: the castle

Noah wants to build a castle when he’s an adult. He’s talked about it for years now (when he was about two, he’d talk enthusiastically about the various animals and machines he’d soon have “At my house, next to [our friend] Tim’s house,” and then later expanded from this image of his own space to something rather [...]

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toys and gender in the Season of Commercialism (er, I mean, love and stuff)

As a socialist feminist parent who’s concerned about our environment, I love the commercialism that peaks around the Christmas season and encourages many of our culture’s most careless and brightly! colored! plastic! forms of gender role naturalization and gender policing. It just warms the heart, doesn’t it? There’s been lots of good writing around this theme [...]

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we love Keva planks

Keva planks are among the best toys ever. We hesitated to buy them because they’re expensive and we weren’t sure whether Noah would play with them much, but we went for a 100-piece as a birthday gift this summer and are planning to get an additional 100- or 200-piece set soon because he keeps running [...]

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