Category Archives: birth stories

book review: Peggy Vincent’s Baby Catcher: Chronicles of a Modern Midwife

I really enjoyed–and recommend–Peggy Vincent’s 2002 memoir Baby Catcher. Vincent’s narrative voice feels strong, empathetic, and funny. She tells many birth stories, spanning decades and multiple birth settings: we see babies born in three quite different hospitals, an ‘alternative birth center’ in one of those hospitals, and many different sorts of homes … including a sailboat [...]

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Ina May Gaskin’s Birth Matters: A Midwife’s Manifesta

Our Goodreads discussion group chose Ina May Gaskin’s new book Birth Matters: A Midwife’s Manifesta as our August read. In late July, I found myself pretty far down on the waitlist for the single copy my public library system had purchased. So I was happy when Gaskin’s publisher offered to send me a copy for review. [...]

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What makes a ‘good’ birth experience? Or, dude, if you were in labor for 50+ hours, where do you get off saying it was wonderful?

I think of my birthing experience as a really, really good one. So it always sort of throws me when someone reads Noah’s and my birth story or hears me talking about it and reacts as though it were something along the lines of a nightmare. A very long nightmare. A nightmare the reader/listener does not [...]

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my (birth) partner: how I know that some men DO belong in a primary support role

[originally posted at my old blog on 17 November 2009] (This post is a part of the Science & Sensibility Healthy Birth Blog Carnival on the third of Lamaze’s Six Healthy Birth Practices: “Bring a loved one, friend, or doula for continuous support.”) My partner, my son’s father, my husband is a pretty awesome person. [...]

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birthing day memories: links

[originally posted at my old blog on 21 July 2009] This year, my child’s birthday prompted me to seek out some other women’s stories, their retellings of their birthing memories as they’re pulled back into them on their children’s birthdays. Here are a few I found interesting and moving: “The Event that Changed My Life [...]

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