Category Archives: birth stories

my (birth) partner: how I know that some men DO belong in a primary support role

[originally posted at my old blog on 17 November 2009] (This post is a part of the Science & Sensibility Healthy Birth Blog Carnival on the third of Lamaze’s Six Healthy Birth Practices: “Bring a loved one, friend, or doula for continuous support.”) My partner, my son’s father, my husband is a pretty awesome person. [...]

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birthing day memories: links

[originally posted at my old blog on 21 July 2009] This year, my child’s birthday prompted me to seek out some other women’s stories, their retellings of their birthing memories as they’re pulled back into them on their children’s birthdays. Here are a few I found interesting and moving: “The Event that Changed My Life [...]

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one response to ‘eww! birth is icky!’ squeamishness

[originally posted at my old blog on 3 March 2009] Several months ago, Shonagh Strachan’s essay “Industrial Childbirth” elicited pages and pages of comments (many of which are crazy and polarizing, by the way). The piece–a reflection on the author’s birthing experience–is thought-provoking and frank, and well worth reading in full. But my point here [...]

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obstetric training: the Rural Doctoring story

[originally posted at my old blog on 9 September 2008] Rural Doctoring (a blog that also includes fabulously well-written and interesting birth stories) is currently presenting a series of posts about its author Theresa Chan’s childbirth philosophy; the second installment has arrived. Click on the link and enjoy! Every time I read about the ways [...]

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birth “safety” (& two homebirth articles)

[originally published at my old blog on 1 September 2008] Madeline Holler’s personal essay “My Illegal Homebirth“ is interesting and funny and demystifies home birth a bit, though of course her experience isn’t representative (and took place in a state where attending a home birth was illegal); check it out. Michelle Gienow’s Baltimore CityPaper article “Home Made: [...]

Also posted in homebirth, labor/birth, pain/suffering, republished from fcs, words/definitions | 2 Comments
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