Category Archives: labor/birth

book review: Peggy Vincent’s Baby Catcher: Chronicles of a Modern Midwife

I really enjoyed–and recommend–Peggy Vincent’s 2002 memoir Baby Catcher. Vincent’s narrative voice feels strong, empathetic, and funny. She tells many birth stories, spanning decades and multiple birth settings: we see babies born in three quite different hospitals, an ‘alternative birth center’ in one of those hospitals, and many different sorts of homes … including a sailboat [...]

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links for thought, August 2011

from Amanda Steen at NPR’s The Baby Project, “Birth: In the Comfort of Home” (a 20-year-old journalist’s account of witnessing a homebirth) What I can say, is that I definitely felt encouraged by one of Shannon’s midwives, Erin Fullam, who said to Linda and me, “People talk about how painful contractions are because they’re so [...]

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Ina May Gaskin’s Birth Matters: A Midwife’s Manifesta

Our Goodreads discussion group chose Ina May Gaskin’s new book Birth Matters: A Midwife’s Manifesta as our August read. In late July, I found myself pretty far down on the waitlist for the single copy my public library system had purchased. So I was happy when Gaskin’s publisher offered to send me a copy for review. [...]

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Adrienne Rich, Of Woman Born: thought-provoking passages (1 of 3)

from Adrienne Rich’s Of Woman Born: Motherhood as Experience and Institution, Norton (NY), 1976: Meanwhile, the potential sources of [childbed fever] went unexplored, and women continued to die–not from giving birth but from acute streptococcal infection of the uterus, in no way inevitably linked with the birth-process. It killed one Mary Wollstonecraft, of whom we know, [...]

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What makes a ‘good’ birth experience? Or, dude, if you were in labor for 50+ hours, where do you get off saying it was wonderful?

I think of my birthing experience as a really, really good one. So it always sort of throws me when someone reads Noah’s and my birth story or hears me talking about it and reacts as though it were something along the lines of a nightmare. A very long nightmare. A nightmare the reader/listener does not [...]

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