is that you make yourself throw, catch, etc. with your child so as to avoid enacting men-play-sports-women-watch before his very eyes, even though you grew up thinking you were weak and delicate and sort of virtuously incompetent at athletic stuff. And then maybe it turns out that hitting a ball with a bat in your [...]

links for thought, June 2011 (2 of 3)
from Andrew Ladd at The Good Men Project, “A Billion Wicked Assumptions” (a review of Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas’s A Billion Wicked Thoughts) [Internet porn searches are] a valuable source of data, say the authors, because the internet is anonymous, and when given anonymity people are more likely to go after what they really want—so [...]