Category Archives: money/class

working/parenting: a guest post from Jessica Montalino

Another installment in the working/parenting series. Hi First the Egg readers! Isn’t Molly awesome?! So a big thank you to her for including me in this amazing array of parents writing about working and parenting. I am Jessica Montalino (my last name is a pseudonym). I live in Western Massachusetts, with my partner Ron and my wild and boisterous [...]

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working/parenting: my own story

[Not a guest post this time, but part of the series on working and/as/while parenting.] here’s my working/parenting story: Once upon a time, two grad students had a baby. We worked too hard, absurdly long hours, and slept too little–but we had flexible work schedules and could pretty easily arrange to have one of us [...]

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working/parenting interview: Molly Remer

An interview with Molly Remer of Talk Birth, & part of the working/parenting series that’s ongoing here. The first three of us were Mollys, but I swear I’m done and will give you guest post authors with other first names soon! – What activities in your life do you consider “work”? Do you think of [...]

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motherpoet: a working/parenting guest post from Molly Sutton Kiefer

A guest post by Molly Sutton Kiefer, part of the working/parenting series. I was born into a family whose habit was to string letters after one’s name.  I grew up spending the school year in the low-slung mountains of Chattanooga, the summers in a small apartment in Columbus, Ohio, where my father plugged away at [...]

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working/parenting: introducing a series of guest posts!

Have you ever noticed that when people write/talk about “working and parenting,” they all too often really just mean whether it’s a good idea to work outside the home as the mother of young children (as though there were one right answer to that question)? Or the challenges of doing that? Or the challenges of staying home with one’s children? During [...]

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