Links to good stuff on not wanting our sons to be “gentlemen,” the assumption that we will (and perhaps should?) hate our pregnant bodies, and slacker moms.
Links to good stuff on not wanting our sons to be “gentlemen,” the assumption that we will (and perhaps should?) hate our pregnant bodies, and slacker moms.
For the first sixth months of Simon’s life, I wondered: How long will I feel relieved every.single.day not to be nauseated and flattened? My pregnancy continued to loom large. Physically and emotionally, I was recovering–not from the birth, but from the difficult, unpleasant pregnancy. And then, sometime around the six-month mark, the intensity gradually ebbed. [...]
done with done sauce and a side order of done: on family size, ambivalence, and decision-making
How does it feel to be ‘done’ having babies?