Category Archives: other

want to help a midwife help others?

“Haitian women experienced the highest maternal mortality rate in the Western Hemisphere prior to the January 2010 earthquake. [...] Today, women and girls experience even greater challenges.“ –Elizabeth Sepper, 2010-2012 Center for Reproductive Rights fellow at Columbia Law School Karen Feltham is a certified nurse midwife, a clinical instructor at Binghamton University in New York, and a [...]

Posted in other | 1 Comment

Eric is now Dr. Eric!

So pleased & proud. But what’s parenting like when neither partner is writing a dissertation???

Posted in other | 5 Comments

this week in pregnancy

has not been pretty, people. Since I’m both behind on my work (since I spent this afternoon trying to nap but throwing up instead) and fucking tired, I’ll just treat you to some excerpts from my journal. 14 September: I spent quite a bit of time this morning figuring out whether or not I was [...]

Posted in other | 10 Comments

survey results: what you mean when you say “I’m a feminist.”

Here are a few of your definitions of your own feminisms from the informal survey I conducted earlier this summer. I hope sharing these here is okay with you: if you would like for me to attribute your words to you, or to remove them, please do let me know in a comment or via email! Many [...]

Posted in other | Leave a comment

Choices in Childbirth asks for your help

The excellent Choices in Childbirth, which works to support mother-friendly birth options and to give families access to information, is a finalist for a grant from FAM (the Foundation for the Advancement of Midwifery). Consider voting (by 30 May) to help them get funding. Here’s a PDF that lists and describes all the finalists. And here’s [...]

Posted in other | Leave a comment
  • Welcome to First the Egg, a collection of practical information, links, and cultural criticism. This site is a feminist intervention in our rigidly-gendered culture of childbirth and parenting. It aims to provide a nonsexist space for people who want to learn, reflect, commiserate, or laugh about being pregnant, giving birth, and helping children grow up whole and happy.

    Feel free to contact me with ideas or questions at email

  • Follow MollyWesterman on Twitter


  • All content © Molly Westerman. Please do link to this site and its pages/posts--I appreciate it! You are also welcome, of course, to quote reasonable amounts of my writing in that context. Beyond that, however, do not reproduce my writing or images without my permission.