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“ Attending births is like growing roses. You have to marvel at the ones that just open up and bloom at the first kiss of the sun but you wouldn't dream of pulling open the petals of the tightly closed buds and forcing them to blossom to your time line. ”
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Welcome to First the Egg, a collection of practical information, links, and cultural criticism. This site is a feminist intervention in our rigidly-gendered culture of childbirth and parenting. It aims to provide a nonsexist space for people who want to learn, reflect, commiserate, or laugh about being pregnant, giving birth, and helping children grow up whole and happy.
Feel free to contact me with ideas or questions at

pregnancy
choosing a birth place, a care provider, and other support people
Why does my choice of birth setting matter, and what are some factors to consider? (Childbirth Connection: multi-page article)
(Our Bodies, Ourselves: Pregnancy and Birth)
What are the basics of choosing a place of birth and healthcare provider? (Our Bodies, Ourselves: Pregnancy and Birth)
How can I find out more about providers and birth sites in my area? (The Birth Survey)
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Is this (apparently bizarre and/or annoying sensation I’m experiencing) normal? And what can I do to make myself more comfortable? (Cleveland Clinic)
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What is “fundal height”? (useful image at MayoClinic.com)
What is gestational diabetes? (PDF; “Share With Women,” Journal of Midwifery & Women’s Health)
“Sexuality and Pregnancy” (Our Bodies, Ourselves: Pregnancy and Birth)
“Pregnancy After Infertility or Previous Pregnancy Loss” (Our Bodies, Ourselves: Pregnancy and Birth)
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What do my insides look like? (illuminating illustrations that may help understand what you’re feeling if you’re asking, for instance, what on earth is my round ligament? or where have my intestines gone?: pre-pregnancy, 6/7 weeks, 12 weeks, 20 weeks, 28 weeks, 36 weeks, & two views at 40 weeks; Childbirth Connection)